Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Krank

     You know the saying, "When it rains, it pours?"  Well that is about my immune system.
   
     I got sick last week no big deal, then last night I felt a burning in my loins.  Turns out it was my loins burning.  I woke up at 3:30 this morning with the worst groin pains of my life.  3 hours later of having to constantly pee, not being able to, and lots of WebMD my host mom woke up and I told her the bad news.  Ich habe eine Blasenentzündung.  I have a bladder infection.  So we got me lots of water and hot packs to ease the pain till 8 when the doctors offices opened.
     The cool thing that came out of this horrendously painful situation is I got to experience German doctors offices.  Wow is it cool.  It's very similar to the States, but better in every way. The patients in the waiting room great and say goodbye to each other.  It's like they all realize, "We're sick and shitty, so let's be happy and sick and shitty together." Though unfortunately your time in the waiting room with your fellow suffers is short because German doctors are speedy.  They get you in and out while still making you feel taken care of and not rushed. They are also terribly helpful.  I went to the doctor for a bladder infection, but he had no problem helping me out with the weird rash slowly taking over my chest.  That's what I call care.
     Maybe I'll have to get sick more often.  Just kidding, I never want to get sick again.


On a side note.  Is it a good sign my nail polish matches my antibiotics?  I think so...

Monday, January 21, 2013

Let's Recap This Year

     As I'm sitting here writing this I'm home sick from school with my little sister.  I evaded the influenza for four months, so I think I did pretty well.  It's -6 out, colder than I've ever lived in in my entire life, and snowing snowing snowing. It hasn't stopped for the last few days, and yesterday we even got some hail; normally not that bad, but when it's been below freezing for a week, it makes for some scary roads.  Anyways lets recap the last two weeks.

     January 4th.  The next day my host family was leaving to go on a week long trip to Austria to go skiing.  That would have been super fun to go on, considering it's a country I've never been to and I haven't been skiing in years.  But it also would have set me back close to 500 euros. Ouch.  So on the 4th I hoped on a train and went up north to the small little town of Katlenburg, 30 minutes away from Gottingen.  There lives the host sister of my aunt.  My aunt was an exchange student when she was 18 (part of the influence to have me try exchange this year) and she is still very good friends with her host sister.  They are such an amazing family.  Anja the mother, Holgar the father, and Svenja the daughter. They have 2 sons, but they are gone at college.  They all picked my up from the train station in Gottingen and we went and explored the Fussgangerzone (pedestrian zone).  Gottingen is a really pretty University town with a lot of history.  Anja and Holgar were such nice people they bought me a new pair of (every expensive) jeans.  Thinking I was a California girl only with shorts they refused to take no for an answer.  Then after some more exploring we hopped in the car and drove to their house in the rain.  Their house is amazing!  They showed me to my room and I got all situated and then we made our plan for the week.  That day was a cave adventure.  Anja, Svenja, and I made the 30 minute journey to a town with a cave.  It was raining and cold, mist wetter!  The cave tour was actually pretty short, but there was a super cool museum that went with the cave to it was pretty cool.  Also the fact that the cave used to be a coral reef in Africa, and now it is a cave some 1000 meters up a mountain in the north of Germany, was pretty cool. We went back home after learning about the worlds oldest family and played some crazy Uno.  Their Uno is terrifying in that a normal hand could end up being thousands of points.  Holgar and Anja had just gotten their tax returns, a fair amount of money; and that with the fact that I was there deemed a celebration.  So we had some Sekt. Lots of Sekt. After dinner we stayed up talking about everything.  I went to bed a bit early to prepare for my next exciting day...
     COSPLAY ON ICE.  Svenja is really into Anime and Japanese culture and all that fun stuff, so the next day we (Svenja, her best friend, and I) went to Cosplay on ice.  Svenja and her friend went as Lolita girls this year, so I lucked out and got to wear her costume from last year. I was Ryoma Echizen from The Prince of Tennis. Anja drove us to the Gottingen train station where we met up with other Cosplayers and then we all walked to the ice rink.  It was really cool to see people in costumes skating around on the ice.  There were two girls I loved who were Alice and the Cheshire Cat.  After many long hours of skating Anja came and picked us up and we got Mexican food for dinner. That night we watched the German version of American Idol on their movie theatre screen.  It's HUGE.
     The next day was Sunday, boy how the time flew.  Svenja had school the next day, so naturally she had lots of work to do.  So Anja and I went to East Germany.  There is an old border crossing station that is now a museum 40 minutes east of their house, so we hoped in the car and headed there.  On our way we passed a town called Duderstadt.  Anja had been there with my Aunt and Uncle so we stopped in to see the sights.  There was a new museum on the town wall so we went into it.  It was really cool and they had fun shooting games so you could test and she how you would have fared as a archer in the old days.  I've found that museums in Germany, and probably all of Europe, are REALLY cool. We spent and really long time in Duderstadt seeing all the old churches.  In one Anja lit a candle fo rher mother and I lit one for the Kuljians. We made our way to the border museum, which of course was super cool.  We ended up staying until it closed.  We were last last people there.  It's really cool to learn the history of a country in the country.  We headed back home talking about music the whole way.  When we got home we instantly got on youtube and showed each other music videos.  Dinner was an event. Holgar wanted to go to a Steakhouse, but I'm a vegetarian. Then there was talk about a different resturant 30 minutes away, but Svenja still had lots of home work. So Anja ended up making the most delicious Salmon meal for dinner.  I could eat it for the rest of my life, total lecker!
     I'm an exchange student, so naturally I'm a bit crazy.  That fact showed in my decision to go to school with Svenja on Monday. I arose to Anjas sweet voice waking me at 5:50.  I got dress and went down stairs to a beautiful, typical, German breakfast.  Then it was off to the bus. We had Physics, English, Latin, and then something like study skills.  Svenjas school is super cool and fancy and big.  It was cool to go.  Holgar picked us up at the end of the day and took us home. Later that night I went to Zumba with Anja, what fun!  And then came home and sat talking on the couch with Svenja and Anja, ending the night in a tickle fight and good byes.
     The next day Holgar took me to the train station and I made my way to Epstein.

     My "Uncle Karl" lives in Epstein.  He is my Grandpas best friend, so I went to spend the rest of my week with him.  I got into Epstein around 4 and Karl and I made our way to his house.  We hung out until evening time when we went to dinner at an Italian restaurant with 2 of Karls friends who just got back from Egypt and Detlef (spelled totally wrong) Karls best friend.  I drank good wine, ate good fish, spoke broken German.  We went back home and Karl gave me a mini lesson in good liquor  the important things to know in life.
     The next day was a nice relaxed day.  I slept in, had some delicious German breakfast.  Then Karl and I went with Deflef to drop his car off at the mechanic to get a broken lock fixed.  The mechanic was many many villages over so it took a while to get there, but it was super pretty too see more of Germany. When that was done we went back home and Karl and I did a crossword together.  I started doing crossword at Anja and Holgars.  I really like them, they help teach me German and it's nice time to spend with people.  Unfortunately my host family doesn't have the time to do them with me, and there's no way I could do them alone. After a while the husband from the couple that went to dinner with us the night before came over for a beer and he helped us out with the crossword.  Then Detlef came over and him, Karl, and I went to a really fancy Italian restaurant for dinner.  I had "spicy" pasta. We went back home and ice cream with liquor, needless to say I drank a lot while there. Karl also has international calling so I got to call Ivy and talk to her for a good hour. It was so great to hear her voice and catch up on all the gossip and news in her life.
    My final full day in Epstein Karl and I went to Wiesbaden after our daily late breakfast and crossword.  Wiesbaden is the capital of Hessen.  I thought I had never been there before but it turns out I went there with Elliot and Su when we went on our travel around Hessen day.  We walked around and it was fun to learn some of the history of Wiesbaden and Germany and Karl. When we were there Detlef called us and told us he found a great Indian food place we could go to for dinner.  So we made the 30 minute drive back to Epstein, Detlef picked us up and we made our way to the Beverly Hills of the region.  Posh. Dinner was hilarious because I was the only one of the group who had ever had Indian food, and I've had it a fair amount so I know whats what.  Who knew the 18 year old California girl could teach 82 and 60 something year old German men something. We headed back home, with Detlef giving me presents of 1kilo of Haribo and boxes of Marzipan. I'm going to come home so fat.
     The next day consisted of my favorite breakfast, apple cake, and crosswords.  Then around noon I hoped a train back to Giessen. Friday was the day me and my family got home, but I never actually saw them until Saturday, because I went into town with a friend pretty much as soon as I got home.

Saturday I found out that, my best friend and life fixation, Ivy's brother died.  I swear more people have died before their time should have come this year than in the last 5 years of my life combined. I ended up heading to Lich to see Sofia, my friend from Spain.  It was great to spend some time with her and a friend from school.  I got back home just in time for the belated birthday party for my host mom.  Her birthday was while my family was away on holidays, so we had a late party. I ended up spending a good portion of the party up in my room skyping Ivy.  But when I came down my mom asked me what was wrong.  I ended up crying in front of all my neighbors, but at least they all don't think I'm super antisocial.

Sunday?  I can't remember Sunday..

Monday.  First day back at school.  Blah.  I got invited to go to a club with some friends on Friday.  It's a shitty club, but it's friends, so I said yeah.  I met up in town with Jose and Diego, exchange students.  We got in some snow fights and then I met up with Martin one of my friends from my host moms school.  We got some coffee and then I headed home to do my copious amounts of homework. Hahaha jk, I never have homework.

Tuesday. School. Friends. below zero temps. ladida. throat ache

Wednesday. Same ol same ol. colder snowier. impending influenza

THURSDAY!  My friend Jake from good 'ol Arcata came to visit for a few days. He has been living in Munich with his family for the last month while intransition between living in India and moving to Costa Rica. I picked him up from the train station, we went home so he could ditch his stuff then headed back into town.  There was lots of beautiful Giessen to show off... sarcasm. After my week away I realized Giessen isn't that pretty.  It's probably because it was all blown up and had to be rebuilt quickly because there were lots of US troops that needed places to live. Anyway.  We met up with Jose and gallivanted around Giessen for a while.  Then we met up with Martin to get some coffee at our favorite coffee spot.  Unfortunately it is a popular favorite coffee spot, so the only tables available were outside.  It wouldn't have been that bad if it wasn't -4 and we weren't outside for 4 hours.  Though it was nice to talk with someone from Arcata and recollect on all the fun times we've had there. And brag a little bit to a German about how cool "Cali" is. We headed home where Jake met my fam and we had untypical German dinner.

Friday. Influenza has been born.  I stayed home from school due to illness.  I got to sleep in, and so did Jake.  We had breakfast and then spent the entire day doing nothing.  We drank some beers and watch Portlandia and Top Gear UK all day. I've missed having nothing but Netflix days.  I messaged my friend and told her that even though I wasn't at school I could go to the club, only to find out her friends were too tired to go so no club.  So Jake and I set out trying to find something to do.  When no options beside crappy club presented themselves we decided to just head into town.  *Mom and Dad stop reading here* We grabbed the bottle of Tequila patently waiting on my book shelf and caught a bus into town.  It's still weird being able to drink in public.  We drank most of the bottle on the bus, weirdness. We met up Martin and wandered around town for a while.  Finally when we were ice cold we went to our coffee shop and got some hot Gluhwein.  Many, very fuzzy hours, later Jake and I got home and went to bed.

Caturday. We both woke up late, though finally it wasn't me sleeping until 1. Jake was supposed to go home that day, so we decided we should do something with our day besides Netflix. So, with our coldness, brightness, and post day alcohol induced minor head aches we went to the Mathematicum, where they soon became full blown migraines with the addition of math.  The Mathematicum is a math museum, I've been to 2 times before.  It's really cool and fun.  And a great way to spend the day.  Jake went home and I was the only Arcatian in Hessen again.

Sunday. I spent the afternoon in Wieseck with Martin.  We went on a walk around Wieseck.  Everything is so much prettier in the snow.  There was even a house with a water wheel that was covered in ice.  Yeah it's been that consistently cold for that long. On our walk I also learned that there are fucked up people all over the world.  The type of fucked up people in Wieseck are the type that like to put dog food filled with razor blades on the side of the road knowing and hoping that dogs will eat it and die. Mensch. We went back to Martins house and watch some movies till I got a call from my host dad saying it was ice raining (hail) and no buses were running anymore because the roads were pure ice. Opps. I ended up going home by a very slow going and terrifying Taxi.  I got home and had a great conversation with my host parents about Fasching and Karnieval where I found out I HAVE to go to Koln.  Apparently that's the best party.

Heute:  sleep. coughing. REAL AMERICAN PANCAKES. cold. blogging from 11am to 5pm.

I'll post pictures another time. Sorry for typos.

I also found this while procrastinating writing this.  It's an interesting read. Enjoy.
http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2013/01/theres-more-to-life-than-being-happy/266805/

<3

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

The Most Magical Christmas of All.

     I have been pretty lazy, at least when I comes to writing in my blog.  I thought I'd change it up this time around and showcase the talents of my best friend.  Kaylee came to visit me for a week for Christmas while she is living in Italy as an Au Pair.  I could not have had a happier Christmas thanks to her.  Everything was so wonderful.
     Seeing as she is away from home for lots of time, she started a blog too.  She is the most fantastic writer it blows my mind.  So, seeing as I'm lazy and she deserves to have lots of complete strangers read her words, here you go:

http://thisisthespaceinbetween.wordpress.com/2012/12/29/weihnachten-in-deutschland-part-1/

I have a feeling there will be many parts, seeing as she isn't even through the first day yet, so keep checking back and maybe keep reading it for forever. I know I will.

Saturday, December 8, 2012

On The First Day of Advent My Host Mom Gave To Me

     My host mom is such a kind woman and included me in on this years Advent Calendar.  With my 24 presents added to the list that means she had to wrap 72 gifts for all her children.  I have a high tendency to forget what I get so here's the list, for my memory, and your jealousy. ;)

1st: Hair clips with bells on them.
2nd: A note saying that we were going to make cookies that day.  And boy did we.
3rd: Nail polish.
4th: Strumfhose AKA tights.
5th: Sparkly hair ties.
6th: The mother load.  Today was St. Nikolaus day, so he brought me presents. And there was an AFS cookie baking party and St. Nikolaus brought presents there too!
From St. Nik at home I got: A Giessen bag, socks, and tons of chocolate and oranges.
From St. Nik at AFS I got: A different Giessen bag, a Giessen umbrella, and German Flag, and 2013 Calendar, juggling balls, an AFS t-shirt.  An Lia, my friend and liaison made me cookies and wrote me a nice card. Best day!
7th: A little electric candle.
8th: A note saying we're going ice skating today.
9th: More hair ties.  Now I'll never run out
10th: Schokolade
11th: Nail buffer kit
12th: Lip Gloss
13th: Socks
14th: Electric candel
15th: Strumfhose
16th: Cell phone charm
17th: Earrings
18th: Schokolade
19th: Nail file
20th: Strumpfhose
21st: Nail kit
22nd: Nail polish
23rd: Lip gloss
24th: Schocolade

December was probably my best month here so far.  It was so festive and German.  I could not be having a better time here.

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Deutschland vs. USA

     So detailed descriptions of my days are fun and all, but they probably get boring.  So why don't teach you some about all the strange things I'm discovering.

I'll update this randomly as I discover and notice new things.  Keep checking back for more awesome discoveries.

-Light switches: Up is off and down is on. I'm not sure which doesn't make sense, them or us. I think them.
-Windows: They are so cool, but mind bending.  In the States we have all sorts of windows; sliding, crank out, lift up.  In Germany they have one, and it's the ultimate. There is a handle and you turn it 90 degrees to be horizontal and the window swings open into the room, like the way a door work.  Or turn it 90 more degrees and it pivots into the room only partially opening, the way a Dishwasher opens.
-Blinds (if you can call them that): They're not curtains either. Next to the window is a strange box with, for lack of a better term, a rope coming out.  You pull, really hard, so hard you think your going to break it, and the blinds roll up.  Pull rope out of the box and the blinds lower.  Also they are outside the window.
-Buses: From what I hear, as I have never ridden a city bus in the US, city buses are sub-par, or maybe just Arcata's. They are usually smells, scary, and frequented by homeless or other ruffian sort of people. We'll in Germany they have 2 of the three, but not how you would expect. They are smelly; pungent with the scent of expensive perfume and cologne from the pretty person you're sitting next too. They're scary, because everyone in Germany drives like a mad man.  Then on top of that you're in this HUGE bus, and the town streets are barely big enough for two normal sized cars.  So when ever a bus drives by car one or the other has to pull over on the sidewalk so the other can pass.
-Transportation: In the US it's quite common for parents to drive their kids to and from school, sports, social events, pretty much everything. That is not so in Germany. Not matter the age kids are expected to take the bus or other forms of public transportation everywhere. My eight year old host sister walks to her bus stop every morning and then takes the bus to school, alone.  Parents in the US would never have their kids do that.
-Dogs: Probably half the people I have met are terribly afraid of dogs. Hmm.  Though a good portion of the dogs I have seen in public are Dobermans.
-Eye Contact: In Arcata it's totally the norm to make eye contact with people you're passing and give them the nod or a smile. Every time I do that here I get really weird looks. In an English class a few years ago it was a social experiment assignment to make eye contact with people and record the reactions, I think I may start that up again.  I like smiling at strangers.
-Football:  Football and football are different.  I almost painted a pigskin on a little boys face because he said he wanted a football. I realized he meant a soccer ball when he almost started crying as I was dipping my brush in brown. They also LOVE their football.
-Parking:  In the States we have Handicap parking.  In Germany they have Handicap parking and parking just for women.
-Stop Lights:  They turn off after dark and before it turns green it turns red and yellow to tell you green is coming.
-Weather: It's fucking cold.
-People:  The people are history.  Not in an, "your so old your ancient," way; rather a, "You lived in East  Germany?  Please tell me everything," sort of way.
-Beer: Radler, Weizen, Pilsner, Alkohol Frei; there are tons of different types of beer.  Though they are very different than US beers; no dark beer, no tangerine beer, no pale ale.
-Music: They don't censor anything on the radio.  Also party music all the time.  Lots of US top 40 music, but they do have more variety.  Cro is a German rapper who is really famous right now.
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-Movie Theatres:  You have assigned seats.  Meaning you and all your friends have to show up together to sit together, or the first person there has to buy all the tickets.  Also the earlier you get there the better seat you get.
-Front Doors:  There are no door knobs that you turn and open the door.  You HAVE to have a key to get in the front door, or have someone inside the house buzz you in.
-TV:  They don't have DVRs.  No recording, no rewinding, no fast forwarding, no program listing.  Just good old fashioned TV.


Thursday, November 29, 2012

Mailing My First Package

HERE WE GO

     On Thursdays I have 4 hours in between my 2 classes of the day.  And today my German teacher gave us the second hour of class free.  So, I wasn't going to spend my 5 hours in school and came home.  My sister has some party thing today at school that I'm going to so I'll be getting home late.  I've had a package full of Christmas goodies all ready to mail for a few days, but have been getting home after the post office closes.  So I mailed it in my freizeit!  This was our journey to the post office.

Wow! A tree! And a babbling brook!


Look friends!

How much money I had before our little journey.  Let's just say I came home missing a lot more than a package.

                             Lets go see a show!                                                 Let's no go to school.

This walk is getting exhausting.

Goodbye my love

Monday, November 26, 2012

Sending My Love To Olivia

     A few hours ago I heard the heart breaking news about the Kuljian family.  Mary, Howard, and Geddie were swept to sea at Big Lagoon yesterday.  My heart goes out to the Kuljians.  No one deserves this, especially such an amazing family.  Though I did not know the entire family that well; the few times I met Mary she was such a sweet, caring, wonderfully nice woman.
    Olivia is such am astounding person.  She is everything I saw in her mother, and so much more.  I was lucky enough to be in AAI with Olivia and develop a friendship with her. She has such a beautiful smile, I hope she won't forget to use it during this time.  She is a very strong girl, so I know she will get through this.  She is so lucky to have backing of a fantastic community.  Humboldt is great in times of tragedy.
     I went on a walk to get some fresh air and think about the Kuljians for a while; and stumbled upon a castle.  It was so magical.  And the entire walk was so green, Geddies favorite color; because, "When you look outside its all you see."  Humboldt has made some great people, it's a shame they have to be taken away so soon.

So, my love and thoughts go out to Olivia and her family, and everyone in my life.

Stay safe.


Thursday, November 22, 2012

The Audi Factory: A Picture Story













And the only evidence I was at the Deutschen Bundesbank today.

     I hope everyone has a fantastic Thanksgiving.  Even though my family is too busy today to celebrate I am still thankful for so many things.  Especially this year I have been able to experience.  I'm pretty darn lucky.  

Sunday, November 18, 2012

Recap

     So last weekend I went to a Kirmes in Soest with Lia and her family.  They are such nice people and the weekend was a blast.  A Kirmes is a fair, with rides and food and games and fun.  The Kirmes in Soest is the biggest Kirmes in a town in all of Germany, and some people argue all of Europe.  It literally took up the entire town. There were tons of rides and I went on some fun ones. Spinning in 4 directions at once is always fun.  We stayed with Lia's Aunt, so it was a huge family affair.  Her dad grew up in Soest, and it turns out so did mine.
     I got through another week of school, Woohoo.  I had my first homework AND test.  I never thought I would be happy to say that, but school is so boring when you have nothing to do.  My homework and test were both in my English class.  Though it wasn't as easy as you think.  It was an English vocabulary test, turns out the words are in German and you have to put them in English.  I was able to answer 9 of the 22, thanks to my cramming the lesson before the test. Everyone always asks me if I have to write the "tests" with them, and I've never really understood what they mean, but now I do.  They have testing for the grades.  So on Friday there was a German test on the book Prinz Friedrich von Hamburg for the entire 11th class.  I didn't know about it, and hadn't read the book, and don't know German; so I didn't take the test.  They kind of give me a STAR test vibe, but they effect your grade.
     I've joined a walking group with some of the ladies from my Gymnastics class.  They are all very nice and sweet.  One of them said that if I help her learn English she'll help me with German.  I guess I can make friends, they just have to be at least 50 years older than me.  Only in Germany do walking group enjoy Gluhwein and Kuchen after their walks.  I find it funny, but it's quite fun.
     I'm looking into Volunteering at an Animal Shelter.  I miss pets, and that way I'll get to hang out with some animals that need someone too love them.

Tomorrow I'm going with Babs and her students to the Audi factory and am going to watch some beautiful cars get made.  Then on Thursday I'm going with Babs and her students to the Deutsches Bank in Frankfurt.  Woohoo!

I'll post pictures from the Kirmes when I get them.  I forgot my camera, and I'm glad I did because it rained and rained.  

Tuesday, November 6, 2012

The time has come

     I've been thinking about this for almost a months now, am I finally going to do it.  I'm going to do one month with no instant communication.  No email, Facebook, Skype, anything. I'm hoping not allowing myself to indulge my constant want to get online and talk to people back home I love and miss will give me more time here to gain people in my life, that I may someday love and miss.  It's going to be pretty tough, but it will be for the best.  When I was in DC they talked to us about our feet.  We have to put both of our feet in our new world and culture and home, instead of one here and one home.  The splits aren't comfortable. So, when the clock strikes 12 tonight, that will be good bye for a month.

     I will still post here of course.  No only does it let people read about my time here, but it's a great record for my self, to remember my time here.

     If anyone wants to talk with me, help support your local post office and the dying postal system and send me a letter!  I love letters! I promise to write back.  That's part of the reason why I'm jumping into it for a month instead of working my way up.  A month is enough time to actually have some good postal conversations. Maybe by the end of the month I wont be so addicted to the internet, but probably not.


Kimber Peterson
Am Erlenhof 3
35415 Pohlheim
Germany


Sprechen Sie bald, tschüss!